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Success = Balance; Balance = Success

What is success to you? Money? Power? Fame? Job status? Intelligence? Rank on a sports team? Happiness? Personal relationships? Good family life? Spirituality? Health? All of these things are great to have, but the key to life is balance. Many people just want a great job, making a lot of money, but then, they’re health […]

Walking the talk…

Many people teach things or say things, but don’t apply those things in their own lives. Yesterday, when I was driving up to Montclair State University, I hit a standstill on the Garden State Parkway. I was supposed to get there at 9:30am, but ended up arriving at 10:45am. I was on my way to […]

You Get What You Give…

The following is an email I recieved today… Hey Ed-It’s been a while since we’ve last touched base. I hope all is well with you and that you are enjoying your summer. Just wanted to update you on my progress. I won the 25 pounds weight loss bet with my friend. To date, I have […]

You Can Create Your Destiny…

Do you believe that you can create your own destiny? Just think about the choices you’ve made in your life in just the past several years…have they made a difference in your life? Would your life be different if you had made different decisions? I know my life would be totally different. I would still […]

Talk about inspiring…

Greetings from the Big Apple! Today was the New York City Half Marathon. 13.1 miles from Central Park to Battery Park. I had the pleasure of watching the first runner pass the 9 mile mark AND the last 2 runners. Both were equally inspiring. As I watched the 13 thousand runners from all over the […]

Feelings VS Actions

Regardless of your feelings, you can still take different actions and perform well, with high energy. There are 3 frogs sitting on a log…one frog decides to jump off. How many frogs are left? 3…just because that frog DECIDED to jump, doesn’t mean he DID jump. People are the same way, many decide to do […]

Stay Positive

The Law of Attraction states that like attracts like, meaning, negative thoughts will produce negative results and positive thoughts will attract positive results. Dr. Rob Gilbert, sports psychology professor at Montclair State University compares the mind to a garden…”If you plant tomatoes, you will get tomatoes, if you plant peas, you will get peas.” Negativity […]

Reaching Your Goals

Reaching your goals in life is done the same way that you would reach your goals in tennis. Being “Pro of the Year” in New Jersey last year, I have had much success in helping my tennis students reach their goals. The Tennis Solutions Goals Program helps you clarify your goals, figure out ways in […]