There are two types of teammates in the world: builder-uppers and breaker-downers.
The builder-uppers are the Derek Jeters who make the rest of their team better. Michael Jordan was the same way.
The breaker-downers focus on themselves and may even put their teammates down to make themselves look better. One bad apple ruins the bunch.
This applies to sports, work, school and relationships.
Here is my favorite poem to bring the point home…
One day as I was walking around my home town,
I saw a group of men tearing a building down.
With a heave and a ho and a mighty yell,
they swung a huge steel ball and a tall building fell.
Impressed, I asked the foreman, “Are these men skilled?
Should I hire them if I ever want to build?”
“Oh no,” he laughed. “Oh no, indeed!
They’re unskilled laborers–that’s all I need.”
“These men can easily wreck in a day or two,
what it takes skilled builders many years to do.”
So I asked myself as I walked away,
which one of these roles do I want to play?
Do I want to be known as one who constantly tears down?
De-energizing others as I spread negativity around?
Or do I want to be known as one who skillfully builds up with care,
enthusiastically encouraging everyone whenever I’m there?
Which type of person will you be today?